The ceremonyWe raised at 5, had some tea and coconut bread as early breakfast. We left for the village a little later, where we then all loaded in a pickup already full of people. But we managed to get in, and stay in until we reached the bride's village about 14 km away on sand tracks. Once we got there we were presented with chairs to sit down. It was like in Franzisko's village, we were treated as guests although we are Mulungus. After a while sitting there and watching what was happening, we got some tea and bread with fruit jam for breakfast. Ladies moved about the crowd serving them cups, tea, sugar and bread.
A little while later, still before seven in the morning, Franzisko told me to come over to a house where something important was happening. A few elders from each family were gathered for an important proceeding. First there was some talk of which I didn't get a word. Then, Franzisko's father went out of the house with a chicken and slit its throat. Thereafter he went back inside and some money was given to the bride's family. Last, they started listing all the gifts brought over by Franzisko's family. An elder read out each item, another found it in the suitcase and a third one wrote it down on a piece of paper. I stayed in the house a while, taking a long video of 6 boring minutes of exchange. Franzisko would have liked the whole part on video, but that was definitely too long. After a while Franzisko came back and asked how it went, so I told him I wouldn't be able to film it all. He took me out of the house and we all went for a stroll to get some drinks at a local shop.
At the shop we bought 6 25cl bottles of Irish Cream, 25cl bottle of Irish Whiskey and 3 soft drinks. The price was much lower than in Tofo. We split the drinks and walked back to the gathering, being loaded in case it got boring again.
We sat down again, and waited a while, until someone told me to get over to where some singing just started. Two groups of women were sitting on mats on the ground. Between the two groups they left some space open for those who wanted to show some dance steps. I took some movie shots of the singing and dancing and sat down on a chair again for a while. Later we were told to move to another spot under a big mango tree where some people were already sitting. We brought our chairs over as well. We were waiting there talking to some people about different things for quite some time. One guy told me he was working in the mines in South Africa, by 4km depth. It was quite dangerous as a mineshaft could collapse anytime. We were comparing life subjects as it was in Mozambique and Europe.
The wedding ceremony then began and took some time. I didn't get what was said, so I proceeded with taking pictures. The lighting was quite difficult, the sun being high and harsh and the shade of the tree making high contrasts. But I managed some shots which show what happened and which aren't too bad. The bride, once married, showed her ring to the assembly. After that the families met each other, in order of close relationship with the bride and bridegroom. With Martin we went at the beginning with Franzisko and some other important people of their family. After a while it was over, and the gift distribution began : the married couple gave their suitcase full of gifts to different members of the families.
Later in the afternoon we loaded ourselves into the back of the backie again, and rolled back to our place. We went home, had some beer and food again and went to check the village to see what the program for the next day was. It came out that the bull wasn't to be slaughtered before five the next morning, so we went back to the house, Martin and me, because we didn't want to miss the bull and were quite exhausted. Franzisko had to stay a little longer to prepare the program for the next day and to write the days events down.
The next morning we rose at five again and had some tea and coconut bread at the house before leaving for the village. At the village not much was going on except some kids listening to loud music after a night of which the most spent dancing and partying. Around 8, Franzisko told me we would leave for the bus station on the N1, because i had to be back at work the next day. I said goodbye to the people and left on the back of the pickup.